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How to Create & Maintain a Service Relationship

The term “service” often conjures images of household drudgery. But there are many ways someone can be “of service” beyond household tasks, including fetish service, sexual service, and so much more.

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How to Create & Maintain a Service Relationship

Time & Location

Mar 07, 2020, 3:00 PM – 4:30 PM

Nightshade, 777 Florida St, San Francisco, CA 94110, USA

About the Event

The term “service” often conjures images of household drudgery. But there are many ways someone can be “of service” beyond household tasks, including fetish service, sexual service, and so much more.

For some kinksters, there's nothing like scrubbing away at the floor or toilet while a stern dominant looks on in silent judgment, or ignores them from the next room.  But if you think unwashed dishes and dirty laundry are the only options, this class will expand your service horizons no matter which side of the dynamic you’re on.

Many tops and dominants dream about having a well-behaved service submissive to call their very own. But finding one pre-trained can be rough and training away bad behaviors can be even rougher! Thankfully, there is a solution to make the process smoother for both sides.

Join Princess Kali as she shares tips and techniques for anyone in a service based relationship (or anyone who wants to be!)

During this class we’ll discuss - 

  • Common stereotypes - including; what service “looks like” (hint: it doesn’t just look submissive!)
  • Different types of service - domestic, sexual, masochistic, & more
  • Negotiating and Communicating both partners’ goals, needs, & limits within the service relationship
  • How to assess & present your service skills as a submissive
  • The dominant’s responsibilities of having a service submissive
  • Practical techniques for behavior training
  • The power of The Command
  • Ways for submissives to improve skills & service
  • And more!